The possibilities of child abuse or accidents or misunderstandings happening in any setting where children and students gather are a reality that cannot be ignored. Therefore, it is important that the programs at Bethlehem Baptist Church clearly state what it believes is acceptable behavior between teachers, volunteers and children/students. The following Code of Conduct (Do's and Don'ts) concerning Preschool, Children, and Student activities are policy and must be adhered to.
2.1 To the best feasible practice, always work in an open environment (e.g. avoiding private or unobserved situations and encouraging open communication with no secrets).
2.2 As much as possible, make the experience of classroom or activity enjoyable: promote fairness, confront and deal with bullying.
2.3 Treat all children/students equally and with respect and dignity.
2.4 Always put the welfare of the children/students first, before your own
2.5 Avoid unnecessary physical contact with children/students.
• In the case of babies and toddlers, if it is necessary to assist with diaper changing and/or going to the bathroom, do so ONLY in the presence of other volunteers. Only female volunteers, 18 or older, may change diapers.
• Do not inflict any discipline or play that would cause physical pain (i.e. hitting, slapping, shaking, squeezing).
• Do not touch the sensitive areas of ANY participant (genitals, breast, and buttocks) or allow any casual contact with those areas, which might be misunderstood by the participant. Sitting on someone's lap or sitting on their shoulders is not allowed.
• Do not hug (for more than a few seconds of embracing, or arms around a participant) unless to physically assist a disabled person to be mobile.
• Hugs in public view that are quick may be appropriate. It's important to let participants know we care. However, opposite sex hugging, especially in Middle and High School, should only be done briefly from the side.
• Holding hands with participants if it is part of a worship/prayer service and in the presence of others is acceptable. Holding hands with small children or toddlers when leading them to a location is also acceptable. In other situations, do not hold hands with a child/student participant.
2.6 Involve parents wherever possible, e.g. where children/students need to be supervised in changing rooms, encourage parents to take responsibility for their own child. If a child has a bathroom accident, a staff member will request that the parent be present for the child's changing of clothes. If groups have to be supervised in changing rooms always ensure parents, employees and volunteers work in pairs.
2.7 Avoid putting yourself in a situation where you are alone in a building or room with a single child/student. If you must speak with a child/student in private, do so in plain view of others and never in a room with the door closed. Leave doors open. It is the goal of Bethlehem Baptist Church to have more than one adult in all situations -if not in each classroom then to have multiple adults in an open area to prevent one adult one-child situations.
2.8 Do not let young children wander around the building/church campus alone during scheduled activities. All children/students should be supervised at all time when under our care.
2.9 Never leave any preschooler unattended at any time.
2.10 Do not let preschoolers or children in elementary (through 5th grade) go to the restroom alone. All children should have adult supervision when going to the restroom. (Elementary volunteers- Alert the other adult in the classroom that you will stand in the classroom doorway while the child goes to the restroom on the hallway.)
2.11 Dismissal time -Make sure the children are dismissed to their parent(s) or legal guardian or those designated by the parents to pick up the children by collecting the child's security tag from the parent/guardian. Do not let them run around the building to find their parents. Make sure they are handed over to the correct adult(s). Students 6th grade and up can be dismissed on their own.
2.12 For children 5th grade and under, leaders need to be aware of all allergies of children in your classroom. Please alert a staff member if allergies are not noted on the child's security tag.
2.13 Be aware of dangers from certain craft items -for example be aware of choking hazards or sharp scissors.
2.14 Written parental consent is required for any church employees or volunteers to transport children/students.
2.15 Medical Consent forms are required from each child/student for all activities, on campus as well as off (with the exclusion of regular church services). Only one consent form is required for all activities and will be valid for one year. These consent forms will be kept by the Minister/Director of the specified ministry area.
2.16 All pictures/videos of children/students will not be placed by the church, on the internet without written permission from the parent or legal guardian. This includes all social media.
2.17 No one under the age of 18 will be baptized without permission from the parent or legal guardian. The permission can be verbal directly with the Minister/Director or written.